Hard Years: Why the Tough Seasons Made Me Softer, Not Harder
Most of us grow up hearing some version of the same advice. When life gets hard, you get tougher.
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Most of us grow up hearing some version of the same advice. When life gets hard, you get tougher.
Every long summer night has a moment when the fun stops being fun.
You put your phone down for five minutes. Five minutes.
At the beginning of this year, if you'd told me I'd eventually have an entire catalog of songs available for people to listen to, I probably would have laughed.
Read the storyMost breakup songs are about the moment it ends. No Looking Back is ten songs about everything before that: the space between what you know and what you're finally willing to admit.
Read the storySome people spend decades in your life and leave very little behind. Others show up for a few years and somehow change everything.
Ten songs. Two voices. One summer full of stories. Why Dock Lights and Alibis is my favorite Harbor Vale album, and why it's best heard start to finish.
Read the storyI didn't start writing music because I wanted to be a songwriter. I started because my son was about to turn one, and I wanted to give him something that would last longer than a birthday.
Ghosts I Built came from a relationship years ago that had a pretty significant impact on my life. I actually moved to New York City for someone I cared about deeply.
Some of my favorite memories have absolutely nothing to do with big accomplishments, expensive vacations, or anything particularly extraordinary. They're just moments with friends.
I've learned that healing is a strange thing. It rarely happens all at once, and most of the time you don't even realize it's happening.
For almost eight years, New York City was home. But eventually I started realizing that the things that made me happiest weren't necessarily the big-city experiences.
I've spent a good part of my career solving problems. It's what I do.
I've learned something over the last few years. Life doesn't always give you a roadmap.